Heidi Johnson of Temple, Arizona, found a unique solution to deal with her 13-year-old son Aaron’s disrespectful behavior and lack of attention towards his homework.
She decided to leave a thorough note on his bedroom door after he argued that his earnings from YouTube absolved him from any household duties.
The note itemized a pretend “invoice” for living costs, such as $116 for rent,
$21 for internet, and $150 for food, in addition to chores and a condition for a $30 cleaning fee for unfinished tasks.
Hey Aaron, I see you forgot you’re just thirteen and I’m the parent here.
Looks like you need a reminder about being independent,” Johnson’s note said,
pointing out the results of Aaron’s behavior and the duties that come with acting independent.
People online had different opinions about Johnson’s tough-love method. Some fans praised her for teaching responsibility, but others thought her way was too strict.
Johnson explained her reasoning by saying, “I gave him a ‘bill’ to show a lesson. Nothing is free. Someone has to give up something eventually.”
Johnson’s experience has started a bigger discussion about how we raise kids,
what it means to be responsible, and how to get children ready for the challenges of growing up.
Her message wraps up with a reminder that she is both a loving parent and someone who sets rules, highlighting the important mix of discipline and affection in being a good parent.
